How a Bullet Journal and Strengths Finder Helped Me Learn To Love My Job

I originally published this on LinkedIn. This blog will probably have more Bullet Journal content in the future. Bullet Journalling is its own sub-culture that is easy to get sucked into and rest assured, this blog won’t turn into a catalogue of flowery page spreads. My Bullet Journaling practice is mostly about staying sane i.e. mental wellness.

I found myself getting a little overwhelmed at my job. I had started 6 months before, and at the time, I wanted to be more organized and purchased a sophisticated planner. The planner had me map out various ambitions and goals and made me think that I could accomplish everything my heart desired if I followed the steps laid out by the structure of the pages of the planner. Somewhere along the line, I noticed the pages of the planner were largely blank, and I felt guilty and anxious.

I believe the mistake had been to try and completely transform many habits at once – it was too much to take on for someone who rarely used to-do lists or anything much more than calendaring functions of Google and Outlook. I did come across the concept of Bullet Journalling though.

While Bullet Journalling has its own subculture that can become intimidating and make it hard to define, my favourite explanation is that it is part planner, part journal and part to-do list. You can take any notebook and create your own bullet journal. There are pages for an index (so you can reference any extra content you create) and ‘future logs’ which are simply annual and monthly (or the optional weekly) overviews. Beyond that, it’s simply one page a day, writing things down in bullet form. Different bullets have different meanings, but overall the system is flexible enough that I figured I could give it a try, and if I missed a day or a week, I could pick it up where I left off without feeling like I had wasted paper (or my money – my first bullet journal resided in a branded promotional notebook provided by a supplier).

I would put meetings (and sometimes appointments) in the journal as items that carried the same amount of space as to-do tasks. When colleagues or customers made unexpected demands, I wrote them down too. Things that didn’t get done got migrated to the next available day, and everything that got done gets marked with an ‘X’. Anyone who uses to-do lists on a regular basis will tell you how gratifying it is to mark items done, but by including things that were ‘done’ without being ‘to-do’ beforehand, I could look back on the day and realize how productive I had been, even if some or all my plans had gone off the rails. It made it easier not to lose track of outstanding items and fill out timesheets at the end of the week too.

None of this is new or revolutionary to those who use bullet journalling, but I did enjoy feeling more satisfied and motivated by seeing how the time had gone. I even included family activities as their own bullets and used a heart-shaped ‘signifier’ (a symbol to identify the nature of the entry) so that I could know that I was still being a good husband and father.

I have, however, come up with some signifiers that might be new to bullet journals. The Strengths Finder is a book/website often used by those in a career transition. It espouses a school of thought that says shoring up weaknesses is not a good use of anyone’s time, but rather, identifying strengths and spending time using them increases both productivity and satisfaction. I bought a copy of the book, which in addition to being a guide to the individual strengths and how to best use them, provides a code that can be redeemed on the website to generate a report on your strengths through a long online questionnaire. My strengths were identified as:

  1. Intellect
  2. Input
  3. Consistency
  4. Learning
  5. Ideation

Getting into the definitions of my individual strengths would make this article too long, and my individual strengths are not what is interesting, but rather that there are actions or activities that I should be undertaking regularly (if not even daily) to be my best. The ideal job is one that lets you work with your strengths daily – and while I believe that no job is perfect, it’s important to track when you can operate to your best potential. I created signifiers for each strength (a for Intellect, a 🚪 for Input, a for Consistency, ⬜ for Learning and a 💡for Ideation) and in reviewing tasks for the day, identify which met the criteria for one (or more of these strengths).

When I read a white paper or brief, I could mark it as Learning or Input, likewise for Webinars. When I engaged in some writing (like this article, for example), it got a star for Intellect. Brainstorming sessions on strategy or sudden epiphanies on strategy could get the Ideation lightbulb, working on processes or systems gets a triangle for Consistency. I wanted to include a photo of a good sample page, but the best ones all had confidential matters on them.

The more often I could signify my work according to my strengths, the less my job seemed to be about putting out fires or sitting in meetings, and the more I liked my job. Our jobs are generally the biggest component of our waking hours, so being able to have a positive attitude of gratitude can be a great mood booster for the entirety of the day or even the week.

Applying my Strength Signifiers to my daily journal entries is a process that hasn’t yet become a natural habit, but I’m convinced that I’m on to something that enhances my productivity, motivation and general mental health. I even applied these signifiers (as well as others like an up arrow ↑ for outdoor/physical activity and a down arrow ↓ for reflection/meditation/downtime) to a year-in-review exercise I performed. I simply leafed through my journals for 2017 and wrote out the most significant achievements and events of every month, applying signifiers as I went along. I hope to continue to evolve my bullet journal practice and continually play to my strengths in my professional and personal life.

The unexamined life is not worth living – Socrates

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not an act, but a habit – Will Durant

The Move to British Columbia Part 1 – Scouting Mission

The pandemic has been hard on everyone, and while I won’t get political, some health measures were especially hard on our family.

Education and schooling in Ontario have been profoundly disrupted by the COVID-19 pandemic. From March 14, 2020, to May 15, 2021, Ontario schools have been closed for 20 weeks total, longer than any other Canadian province or territory.

We were very lucky and privileged in so many ways. We have a house with a backyard and pool which made the isolation easier to bear, our internet connection was reasonably stable, and there’s a member of the household (me) who is tech-savvy enough to troubleshoot issues as they arise. My wife and I were able to work remotely and both avoid infection and make sure our kids attended remote classes.

Still, we suffered. The constant multi-tasking and hybrid prioritization of being a teaching assistant on top of being a parent, playmate and a real job took its toll. The kids lost ground on their academic education, but so much more in terms of socialization. Making friends, taking turns, sportsmanship… I don’t even like to think too hard about all the intangibles, soft skills and experiences they missed out on. None of this is unique to our family, but the Lightning Kid has special needs, while Shark Boy is a Provincially-ranked competitive gymnast (with no place to train except our basement), so our family might be more of a rare case.

Another way my family might be rare is that we are willing to think outside the box (and honestly we have the privilege and means to make ideas a reality). We looked outside our own backyard and realized it didn’t have to be this way. While we considered moving to Germany (where we have roots and family) or even Finland (which sounded nice at one point when the ideas were at their most fanciful stage), British Columbia presented something desirable without too much culture shock or legal red tape etc.

And so we booked a flight to Vancouver during last week of school to look into some schools that might be willing to take our boys on. We also had appointments at Gymnastics facilities that had a Men’s Competitive program for Shark Boy. Combining those prospective lists kept us mostly around Langley and Abbotsford, which are in the Fraser River Valley, inland from Vancouver.

White Rock

The trip took about 10 days, with the better part of a week staying in a corporate hotel in Langley. We kept up with remote work and school from the hotel room, though I occasionally retreated to the business centre for increased peace and quiet. Due to the time difference, the kids would be done school at noon local time, and I could wrap up work in the early afternoon. So our first afternoon was spent visiting a school in White Rock (Surrey). The kids needed to get reacquainted with how to behave in a school, but they were wide-eyed at seeing halls, gyms and lockers again. After the tour, we took a trip to the beach. White Rock is home to the longest pier in Canada, and it was lovely to be by the ocean and eat ice cream. Driving to the shore involved roads like the ones you see in movies that take place in San Francisco. I have a recurring nightmare of losing control of a car while driving on steep and twisty roads, so this was a good way to face my fears. The area near the shore is lovely but looks like a neighbourhood where people really care about appearances and property values and such. The tide was high and we saw someone in the water so we thought we might try swimming the next time.

Abbotsford

We visited a lovely school and a gymnastics facility the next day in Abbotsford. Abbotsford had that familiar feel of a suburb that is a commuter/satellite community of a larger metropolis. While Shark Boy was in his gymnastics tour (the try-out wouldn’t be for a couple of days), the Lightning Kid and I had an opportunity to geocache and explore a great playground nearby, which led to this video:

Delta & Langley

Delta is an interesting neighbourhood in that the proximity to the water should make it a little fancy like White Rock, but it seems to serve fishing, transport and industry. Shark Boy liked the gym there just fine, and the Lightning Kid fooled around in a skate park (without skates)

We headed back inland to see a school in Langley Township. It was situated in a gorgeous area with quite a view.

After many attempts, we were able to get a table at an Olive Garden, which hasn’t existed in Ontario for some time. So we enjoyed our dinner, as it was something of a rare gem.

On Friday, back in Langley by the hotel, I managed to get a run in around the local area. The hilly terrain did not make it easy! I called it a ‘Funky Fartlek’ because I played around with speed and sprints.

Saturday meant no school or work, and we still had a try-out at the Abbotsford Gym in the afternoon, so we took the kids back to White Rock to see the beach. Unfortunately, the tide was out, and I had no confidence in the safety of swimming further out, so we fooled around in the tide pools and looked at crabs.

Lightning Kid in shallow water

We capped off the Saturday with a trip into Vancouver and up to Grouse Mountain. We got a look at a Grizzy Bear and a lovely dinner at the mountain top restaurant called Altitudes Bistro.

Victoria

With our business on the mainland concluded, we used the rest of the weekend to travel to Vancouver Island. The Ferry was an interesting experience, albeit there was a lot of waiting and pandemic restrictions made it less fun.

We had a beautiful hotel in Victoria. The pool was especially enjoyable. It also had theatre room where we watched the movie Cruella (the hotel provided Disney+ Premium Access), and a rooftop marshmallow roast.

Victoria is a beautiful city. We checked out a school that held a majority of classes outdoors and a gymnastics facility that was starting up a built-in high performance school.

We flew from Victoria airport on a propeller plane to Vancouver, and from there back home, having completed our mission to gather information on what our lives might look like when the next school year started. How that turns out, will be the story of another post.